Nobody in their right mind would try to convince you that we live in a stress-free world. While it is true that men and women both are subjected to stress, it seems that men tend to have a harder time dealing with it. It used to be conventional wisdom that men had more stress than women, but ask any woman and you will find out that simply isn't true. In some ways, women are at a disadvantage when it comes to dealing with stress, but that doesn't have to be the case.
For
one thing, a lot of women are mothers and have full time jobs as
well. In a perfect world, men and women would share all of the
household responsibilities equally, but study after study has shown
that women do much more of the work around the home, and that's even
if they work outside of the home.
Several
techniques are available that can help women start relieving
stress. Here are some of the most effective methods for reducing
stress.
Stress
Relief Tip #1: Use the magic word. What is the magic word? The word
is 'no'. That's right! Perhaps there is an inborn need women have to
take care of things, or maybe it has been thrust upon them by
society. Either way, they often find it hard to say no. While this
isn't always a problem if it doesn't get too far out of hand, it can
add to your stress if you start ignoring yourself. Besides, if you
really want to help others, then doesn't it make sense that you
should be as free from stress as possible?
Stress Relief
Tip #2: Go for a walk. Or, participate in any form of exercise.
Walking, swimming, dancing, hiking, going for a bike ride, or any
other activity will help you in several ways. It will give you time
to clear your mind. It can also help you to blow off steam in a
constructive manner. See, society generally says that women can
express happiness and cry once in a while, but not show their anger.
That doesn't mean you should never get mad, but rather that exercise
is a healthy outlet to get rid of some of the anger that can lead to
stress. Of course, the fact that exercise will also make you
healthier is just icing on the cake.
Stress Relief Tip #3: Treat yourself. You have to take some time to do good things for yourself, to do the things you enjoy. You don't have to forget everybody else, but be sure to remember you too. Don't just promise yourself that you will do something nice when you have the time. Instead, schedule time for yourself every day, or every week. And don't feel guilty about it either; you've earned it. You will feel better, and the people around you will notice an improvement as your stress starts to melt away.
By Max Taylor