Once
you find the right frog to kiss, he just might turn into the handsome
prince that the fairytale talks about. On the other hand, a toad is
always a toad and they carry many warts around with them. Thousands
of people join dating sites daily and at least half
of them are new toads. That�s why the trick is sorting out the
toads from the frogs as fast as you can. Of course, it�s not an
easy task, but you�ve got to at least try so that you don�t let
the toads get close enough to you to grab a kiss. You should also
keep in mind that everyone is usually a toad to SOMEONE in the dating
world due to individual preferences.
The
first way you can tell a toad from a frog is that toads are known for
lurking. If some guy keeps looking at your online dating profile but
he never tries to communicate with you, most likely he�s a toad.
The frogs will either contact you or move on. They won�t keep
hanging around to the extent that you feel like you�ve got a
stalker.
Another
toad tactic is self-contradiction. Take a look at their profiles and
look for things that don�t add up. If he claims that he�s a fun
loving guy but other things show that he�s got some latent
hostility going on, he�s probably a toad. A princely frog will
match their words and intentions.
Toads
have no respect for your boundaries. So if you come in contact with
some guy that wants to move from the phone directly to
in person in spite of the fact that you�re not comfortable with
that, you�ve found yourself a toad. A frog will care about your
comfort and will let you set the pace.
A
toad will ask you out in the very first email he sends to you. Toads
write just one email and do a cut and paste to all the women he found
interesting that day. They don�t care about getting to know you.
Frogs will at least ask you a question about yourself to get the
conversation started.
Toads
get sexual almost immediately. If he starts out by asking you what
you like sexually, take off! He doesn�t belong on a respectable
dating website. A frog will work into that subject in a much more
appropriate time frame.
It�s
not possible to completely repel all the warts, but you can certainly
keep a lot of them away. You may still end up having to kiss your
share toads before finding the frog that will become your prince.
However, keep in mind that part of the fun of dating online is
driving away the toads. If you have the right kind of online dating
profile, the frogs will find you easily enough. In addition, remember
that you�ll need to pay close attention to detail as well as using
your intuition if you want to land your princely frog.
By Max Taylor